
Imagine being in a tug-of-war, with God pulling on one side and the world pulling on the other. The tension isn’t just “out there” — it’s inside of us. Our desires, ambitions, and loyalties are constantly pulled in two directions. James writes to believers who were facing that exact battle — quarreling among themselves, chasing worldly approval, and forgetting the posture that brings God’s blessing: humility.
This passage is a spiritual mirror. It forces us to ask: Am I truly submitted to God, or am I trying to keep one foot in His kingdom and one foot in the world’s system? James doesn’t soften his words — he calls out the war within, the dangers of divided loyalty, and the arrogance of judging others. But he also offers hope: God gives more grace to the humble, and when we submit to Him, the devil doesn’t stand a chance.
Today we’re going to see that resisting the world isn’t about retreating into isolation; it’s about choosing whose voice you will follow and whose values you will live by. And James makes it clear — friendship with the world will cost us friendship with God.
Who has your loyalty? James says our conflicts don’t start with the people around us — they start with the desires inside us. And here’s the reality: you can’t hold hands with the world and walk with God at the same time. Today, we’ll see how humble submission to God not only pushes back the pull of the world but sends the devil running.
Series Title: Faith That Works
Week 6: Faith That Overcomes
Text: James 4:1–12 Big Idea:Faith that works rejects worldly values and humbly submits to God.
I. The Source of Our Conflicts
James 4:1–3 (NIV)
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
Cross References:
- Proverbs 13:10 – Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.
- 1 John 2:16 – For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world.
Why We Struggle: We tend to blame others for conflictinstead of confronting the selfish desires within ourselves. Prayer, when offered, can be self-centered rather than God-centered.
Theological Summary: James identifies the real battleground as the human heart. Conflicts start when self takes the throne.
Know This: You can’t have peace with others if you’re at war within yourself.
II. Friendship with the World vs. Friendship with God
James 4:4–6 (NIV)
You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”
Cross References:
- Matthew 6:24 – No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other.
- 1 Peter 5:5 – God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.
Why We Struggle: We want the approval of both God and the world, forgetting they operate on opposing value systems.
Theological Summary:To love God is to reject the world’s system of pride and self-rule. God’s grace is abundant, but it comes to the humble.
Know This: You can’t hold hands with the world and walk with God at the same time.
III. The Call to Submit and Resist
James 4:7–10 (NIV)
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
Cross References:
- 1 Peter 5:8–9 – Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith…
- Micah 6:8 – …what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.
Why We Struggle: We want God’s help without surrendering control. We prefer comfort over repentance.
Theological Summary:Submission is not weakness—it’s aligning under God’s authority. Resistance is active, not passive.
Know This: Satan flees not from the strong, but from the surrendered.
IV. Stop Judging One Another
James 4:11–12 (NIV)
Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?
Cross References:
- Matthew 7:1–2 – Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
- Romans 14:4 – Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall…
Why We Struggle: Judging others makes us feel superior. It’s easier to point out flaws than to address our own.
Theological Summary: Only God has the authority to judge hearts. Our role is to love, restore, and point to truth.
Know This: When you judge others, you’re trying to do God’s job—and you’re not qualified.
APPLICATION
HEAD (What to Believe):
Conflicts come from within, and victory comes through humble submission to God.
HEART (What to Feel):
A desire to draw near to God and be free from the pull of worldly thinking.
HAND (What to Do):
- Confess self-centered motives.
- Practice daily surrender to God’s will.
- Speak words that build up, not tear down.
Key Takeaways:
- Selfish desires are the root of relational conflict.
- Friendship with the world is hostility toward God.
- Victory over the devil comes through surrender to God.
- Humility invites God’s favor; pride invites His opposition.
- Judgment belongs to God, not us.