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Holy Tuesday: Teachings and Controversies

Summary: Jesus teaches in parables, challenges religious leaders, and predicts the Temple’s destruction.

Scripture: Matthew 21:23-46

Jesus entered the temple courts, and, while he was teaching, the chief priests and the elders of the people came to him. “By what authority are you doing these things?” they asked. “And who gave you this authority?” Jesus replied, “I will also ask you one question. If you answer me, I will tell you by what authority I am doing these things. John’s baptism—where did it come from? Was it from heaven, or of human origin?” They discussed it among themselves and said, “If we say, ‘From heaven,’ he will ask, ‘Then why didn’t you believe him?’ But if we say, ‘Of human origin’—we are afraid of the people, for they all hold that John was a prophet.” So they answered Jesus, “We don’t know.” Then he said, “Neither will I tell you by what authority I am doing these things. “What do you think? There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work today in the vineyard.’ “ ‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went. “Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go. “Which of the two did what his father wanted?” “The first,” they answered. Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him. “Listen to another parable: There was a landowner who planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a winepress in it and built a watchtower. Then he rented the vineyard to some farmers and moved to another place. When the harvest time approached, he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his fruit. “The tenants seized his servants; they beat one, killed another, and stoned a third. Then he sent other servants to them, more than the first time, and the tenants treated them the same way. Last of all, he sent his son to them. ‘They will respect my son,’ he said. “But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, ‘This is the heir. Come, let’s kill him and take his inheritance.’ So they took him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him. “Therefore, when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?” “He will bring those wretches to a wretched end,” they replied, “and he will rent the vineyard to other tenants, who will give him his share of the crop at harvest time.” Jesus said to them, “Have you never read in the Scriptures: “ ‘The stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone; the Lord has done this, and it is marvelous in our eyes’ ? “Therefore I tell you that the kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit. Anyone who falls on this stone will be broken to pieces; anyone on whom it falls will be crushed.” When the chief priests and the Pharisees heard Jesus’ parables, they knew he was talking about them. They looked for a way to arrest him, but they were afraid of the crowd because the people held that he was a prophet.

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Holy Monday: Cleansing the Temple

  • Summary: Jesus cleanses the Temple, condemning the merchants for their disrespect.
  • Scripture: Mark 11:15-17 NIV – “And as he taught them, he said, ‘Is it not written: ‘My house will be called a house of prayer for all nations’? But you have made it ‘a den of robbers.’'”

Matthew 21:12-22Jesus entered the temple courts and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves. “It is written,” he said to them, “ ‘My house will be called a house of prayer,’ but you are making it ‘a den of robbers.’ ” The blind and the lame came to him at the temple, and he healed them. But when the chief priests and the teachers of the law saw the wonderful things he did and the children shouting in the temple courts, “Hosanna to the Son of David,” they were indignant. “Do you hear what these children are saying?” they asked him. “Yes,” replied Jesus, “have you never read, “ ‘From the lips of children and infants you, Lord, have called forth your praise’ ?” And he left them and went out of the city to Bethany, where he spent the night. Early in the morning, as Jesus was on his way back to the city, he was hungry. Seeing a fig tree by the road, he went up to it but found nothing on it except leaves. Then he said to it, “May you never bear fruit again!” Immediately the tree withered. When the disciples saw this, they were amazed. “How did the fig tree wither so quickly?” they asked. Jesus replied, “Truly I tell you, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and it will be done. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.”

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Sermon Notes: Palm Sunday – Why We Miss What God is Doing

The King (Matthew 21:1–11). The people were blind to their Scriptures (Zech. 9:9). They praised Him with Psalm 118:26 but overlooked verses 22–23, which Jesus quoted later (v. 42). Beware knowing the Bible but not knowing the Lord when He is at work in your midst.

The Message

Matthew 21:6‭-‬11 NIV

6  The disciples went and did as Jesus had instructed them. 7 They brought the donkey and the colt and placed their cloaks on them for Jesus to sit on. 8 A very large crowd spread their cloaks on the road, while others cut branches from the trees and spread them on the road.

9 The crowds that went ahead of him and those that followed shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David!” “Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!” “Hosanna in the highest heaven!”  10 When Jesus entered Jerusalem, the whole city was stirred and asked, “Who is this?”  The crowds answered, 11 “This is Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.”

  • Luke 19:41‭-‬42 NIV As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it and said, “If you, even you, had only known on this day what would bring you peace—but now it is hidden from your eyes.

There were five crowds within the large crowd….

  • The Curious CrowdThey followed Him on Palm Sunday because they wanted to know what He was going to do this time. They were curious about what was in it for them.
  • The Confused Crowd The confused crowd is illustrated in Matthew 21:10-11, “When Jesus came to Jerusalem, everyone in the city was excited and asked, “Who can this be? The crowd answered, “This is Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.” Of all the things Jesus did, this one-line description was all they could say. Even though they were following Him, they were still confused about who Jesus was. The confused group today refers to God as “the man upstairs” or as a higher power.
  • The Pretenders They were in the crowd on Palm Sunday pretending to be committed to Jesus. They were pretending, but they were not fully sold out.  Pretenders go through the motion, but their hearts are lukewarm. They are great pretender just to impress others and to get their approval.
  • The Opposers The fourth group included the opposers like the Pharisees and the Sadducees. For three years they had done everything they could to oppose what Jesus was doing. They rebuked Him for healing on the Sabbath and for taking an ox out the ditch. They forgot Him because His disciples ate food without washing their hands. Ultimately they conspired to have Jesus killed…
  • The Committed CrowdHowever, this is the smallest group. A committed person is one who follows Jesus‘ instructions without questioning Him or His motives and without murmuring and complaining.
    • Matthew 21:6-7, “The disciples left and did what Jesus had told them to do. They brought the donkey and its colt and laid some clothes on their backs.”

Reflections in All Cases

  • They missed God’s timing

As Jesus ascended toward Jerusalem, a large multitude gathered around Him. This crowd understood that Jesus was the Messiah; what they did not understand was that it wasn’t time to set up the kingdom yet

  • The power of the religious blinded their spiritually

In their praise of Jesus, the Jewish crowds were quoting Psalm 118:25–26, an acknowledged prophecy of the Christ. The allusion to a Messianic psalm drew resentment from the religious leaders present

  • However, God’s plan was in motion

Some 450 to 500 years prior to Jesus’ arrival in Jerusalem, the prophet Zechariah had prophesied the event we now call Palm Sunday: “Rejoice greatly, Daughter Zion! / Shout, Daughter Jerusalem! / See, your king comes to you, / righteous and victorious, / lowly and riding on a donkey, / on a colt, the foal of a donkey” (Zechariah 9:9)

The people wanted their earthly objectives met at the expense of God’s eternal plans

  • The crowds looked for a Messiah who would rescue them politically and free them nationally, but Jesus had come to save them spiritually. First things first, and mankind’s primary need is spiritual, not political, cultural, or national salvation.

They failed to realize God’s ways are not our ways

  • They could neither see nor understand the cross. That’s why, “as [Jesus] approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it and said, ‘If you, even you, had only known on this day what would bring you peace—but now it is hidden from your eyes. The days will come upon you when your enemies . . . will not leave one stone on another, because you did not recognize the time of God’s coming to you” (Luke 19:41–47).

We worship him on Sunday then reason like the world on Monday

  • It is a tragic thing to see the Savior but not recognize Him for who He is. The crowds who were crying out “Hosanna!” on Palm Sunday were crying out “Crucify Him!” later that week (Matthew 27:22–23).

We Should Remember: There is coming a day when every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord (Philippians 2:10–11). The worship will be real then.

  • Philippians 2:10‭-‬11 NIV that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,  and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

John records a scene in heaven that features the eternal celebration of the risen Lord: “There before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands”

  • Revelation 7:9, emphasis added These palm-bearing saints will shout, “Salvation belongs to our God, who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb” (verse 10), and who can measure sum of their joy?

We can be in the crowd that mattersThere is good news for everyone on Palm Sunday and on other days as well. There is one crowd we all should want to be in. That’s the crowd that will be caught up with Jesus in the air when He comes back to take us home to glory.

  • Romans 10:9-11 f you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. 11 As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.”

I want to be there…  How about you?

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Yodh – Psalm 119:73-80

“Yodh” (י) is the tenth letter of the Hebrew alphabet and serves as the heading for the tenth section of Psalm 119 (verses 73-80). In this section, like the others, each verse begins with “Yodh” in the original Hebrew text, continuing the acrostic structure of the psalm.

The symbolic meaning of “Yodh” can be multifaceted:

Literal Meaning and Symbolism: “Yodh” is the smallest letter in the Hebrew alphabet, often symbolizing the idea that even the smallest things can have great significance. In the context of Psalm 119, this could represent the concept that every word of God, no matter how seemingly insignificant, holds profound weight and importance.

Foundation and Beginning: “Yodh” is considered a foundational letter in the Hebrew alphabet and is used to signify the omnipresence of God. This aligns with the themes of Psalm 119, where the psalmist seeks guidance and understanding from God, acknowledging Him as the foundation of all wisdom and knowledge.

Humility and Magnitude: The small size of “Yodh” can symbolize humility, reminding readers of the vastness of God’s creation and law in comparison to human frailty. It encourages believers to approach God’s word with humility, recognizing the depth and breadth of divine wisdom contained in even the shortest verse or command.

Creativity and Potential: In Jewish mysticism, “Yodh” is associated with the hand, and by extension, with the act of creation. This reflects the creative power of God’s word in Psalm 119, highlighting how it shapes and molds the believer’s life, guiding them towards righteousness.

Point of Inflection: Given its role in Hebrew script, “Yodh” can signify a turning point or a moment of reflection, which is evident in the psalmist’s introspective pleas for understanding, guidance, and deliverance from affliction. It suggests that engagement with God’s law serves as a crucial juncture in the believer’s spiritual journey.

In summary, “Yodh” in Psalm 119 symbolizes the profound significance of God’s word, the foundational role of divine guidance in the believer’s life, the importance of approaching scripture with humility, the creative and transformative power of God’s commandments, and the pivotal nature of biblical wisdom in fostering spiritual growth and reflection.

Psalm 119:73-80: Verse by Verse Analysis

Verse 73:  

Text: “Your hands made me and formed me; give me understanding to learn your commands.”  

Reflection: The psalmist acknowledges God as his Creator and asks for understanding to grasp and follow God’s commandments, linking the gift of life with the purpose of living according to divine will.  

Cross-reference: Isaiah 64:8 – “Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.”  

Verse 74:  

Text: “May those who fear you rejoice when they see me, for I have put my hope in your word.”  

Reflection: The psalmist desires his life to be an encouragement to others who revere God, showing that hope placed in God’s word has positive, communal effects.  

Cross-reference: Romans 15:4 – “For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.”  

Verse 75:  

Text: “I know, Lord, that your laws are righteous, and that in faithfulness you have afflicted me.”  

Reflection: Recognizing God’s righteousness and faithfulness, the psalmist understands that his afflictions are part of God’s loving discipline, aimed at spiritual growth.  

Cross-reference: Hebrews 12:5-6 – “And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as a father addresses his son? It says, ‘My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you.'”  

Verse 76:  

Text: “May your unfailing love be my comfort, according to your promise to your servant.”  

Reflection: The psalmist seeks comfort in God’s unfailing love, trusting in the promises made by God, emphasizing the reliance on divine compassion during times of difficulty.  

Cross-reference: 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 – “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles.”  

Verse 77:  

Text: “Let your compassion come to me that I may live, for your law is my delight.”  

Reflection: Asking for God’s mercy to sustain him, the psalmist expresses joy in God’s law, viewing it as a source of life and happiness.  

Cross-reference: Psalm 119:50 – “My comfort in my suffering is this: Your promise preserves my life.”  

Verse 78:  

Text: “May the arrogant be put to shame for wronging me without cause; but I will meditate on your precepts.”  

Reflection: Despite injustices from the arrogant, the psalmist chooses to focus on meditating on God’s precepts, seeking justice and maintaining integrity.  

Cross-reference: 1 Peter 3:14 – “But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. ‘Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened.'”  

Verse 79:  

Text: “May those who fear you turn to me, those who understand your statutes.”  

Reflection: The psalmist hopes to be a beacon for like-minded believers, fostering a community of those who respect and understand God’s laws.  

Cross-reference: Malachi 3:16 – “Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard. A scroll of remembrance was written in his presence concerning those who feared the Lord and honored his name.”  

Verse 80:  

Text: “May my heart be blameless in your statutes, so that I will not be put to shame.”  

Reflection: A prayer for integrity in following God’s statutes, the psalmist desires a heart free from guilt or blame, highlighting the importance of wholehearted devotion to God’s commandments.  

Cross-reference: 1 John 3:21-22 – “Dear friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God.”  

Key Takeaways from Psalm 119:73-80

  • Recognition of Divine Creation and Purpose: The psalmist acknowledges God as his Creator and seeks understanding to fulfill the purpose of living according to divine commandments. Emphasizing the connection between life’s gift and the intention to live it in obedience to God.
  • The Role of Affliction in Spiritual Growth: Afflictions are seen not as random misfortunes but as part of God’s righteous discipline, aimed at refining the believer’s faith and character. The psalmist recognizes these trials as manifestations of God’s faithfulness, intended for spiritual growth and deeper adherence to God’s laws.
  • Comfort and Hope in God’s Promises: The psalmist finds comfort and sustenance in God’s unfailing love and promises. This reliance on divine compassion highlights the sustaining power of hope rooted in God’s word, even amidst adversity.
  • Integrity and the Community of Believers: A desire for personal integrity in following God’s statutes is coupled with a wish to connect with and be a model for other believers. The psalmist expresses a hope that his life reflects a commitment to God’s laws that encourages and attracts fellow God-fearers, fostering a community grounded in mutual respect for divine precepts.
  • Justice and Personal Meditation on God’s Precepts: In facing injustice, the psalmist chooses not to focus on the wrongs done by the arrogant but instead on meditating on God’s precepts. This choice underscores the value placed on personal integrity and the pursuit of righteousness over seeking retribution.
  • A Heart Blameless in God’s Statutes: The ultimate goal expressed is to have a heart that is blameless in following God’s commandments, demonstrating a yearning for a life of wholehearted devotion to God that is free from guilt or shame.

Together, these key takeaways reflect a profound journey of faith where understanding, comfort, integrity, and community are sought through a deep engagement with God’s commandments. The passage illustrates how trials, reflection, and the pursuit of righteousness are intertwined in the believer’s path towards spiritual maturity and fulfillment.

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Sermon Notes: Life Through the Holy Spirit – Our Helper

Guidance (26–30). God’s purpose is to make His children like His Son, and He will succeed. The Spirit intercedes for us and guides us as we pray, and the circumstances of life work for our good, no matter how painful they may be.

Romans 8:26-30 continues to unfold the riches of life in the Spirit, highlighting the Holy Spirit’s assistance in our weaknesses, the intercession on our behalf, God’s purpose in our lives, and the assurance of our future glory.

Romans 8:26-27 – The Spirit’s Intercession

‭‭Romans 8:26-27 NIV‬‬ In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. [27] And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.

Note: When Paul transitions to verse 26 with “In the same way,” he is connecting the believers’ experience of hope and suffering with the work of the Holy Spirit.

  • Essentially, Paul is saying that just as our hope sustains us through suffering, the Holy Spirit helps us in our current weakness, particularly when we struggle with prayer.
  • “In the same way” indicates that the Spirit’s assistance is another aspect of how God supports and sustains us in our present condition, amidst our groaning and longing for redemption.
  • Ephesians 6:18 – “And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.”     

Application: This teaches us about the nature of prayer and reliance on the Spirit, encouraging us to engage in prayer even when we feel unable or unsure of what to pray for, trusting in the Spirit’s intercession on our behalf.     

Explanation: Sometimes, we’re so upset or confused that we don’t even know what to pray for. During these times, the Holy Spirit steps in and helps us out. It’s like having a friend who knows exactly what we’re going through and talks to God on our behalf, making sure our deepest needs are communicated, even without words.

Romans 8:28 – God Works for Our Good

‭‭Romans 8:28 NIV‬‬ And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. 

  • Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”     

Application: It encourages believers to trust in God’s sovereign and good plan for their lives, even in adversity, knowing that their circumstances are being used by God for a greater purpose.     

Explanation: This famous verse reassures us that no matter what happens—good or bad—God has a way of turning it around for our benefit, especially for those who love Him and are living according to His plan. It’s like knowing that even if things look messy now, there’s a good ending waiting for us.

Romans 8:29-30 – Foreknown, Predestined, Called, Justified, Glorified

Romans 8:29-30 NIV‬‬ For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. [30] And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.

  • Ephesians 1:4-5 – “For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—”     

Application: This provides deep assurance to believers of their secure position in Christ and the comprehensive scope of God’s saving work, encouraging them to live in light of their identity and destiny in Christ.      

Explanation:

  • Foreknown and Predestined: God knows us deeply and has chosen us for a special purpose—to become more like Jesus, showing love and kindness.
  • Called: God invites us to follow Him, not just as a general call to everyone, but with a personal invitation to each of us to be part of His family.
  • Justified: When we accept God’s invitation, He forgives our mistakes and sees us as if we’ve never done anything wrong.
  • Glorified: In the end, God has an amazing future planned for us, where we’ll be honored and free from all the pain and troubles of this world.

Key Takeaways

1. The Holy Spirit Helps Us in Our Weakness

Even when we don’t know what to pray for, the Holy Spirit is right there, helping us by interceding for us with wordless groans. This shows the depth of God’s understanding and compassion for our struggles. 

2. God Works for Our Good

In every situation, God is working for the benefit of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. This doesn’t mean everything that happens will be good, but that God can use every situation to bring about good in our lives. 

3. We Are Part of God’s Plan

Before we were even born, God knew us and had a plan for us. This plan includes being shaped into the likeness of Jesus, showing us that our lives have purpose and direction. 

4. God Calls and Justifies

God not only calls us to Himself but He also justifies us, meaning He declares us righteous in His sight. This is solely based on Jesus’ sacrifice, not on anything we’ve done. 

5. Our Glorious Future

God’s ultimate goal for us is glory. Despite the sufferings of this present time, believers have a glorious future to look forward to, a future that God has guaranteed. 

Application:

Trust in the Spirit’s Assistance: Remember that you’re never alone in your struggles. The Holy Spirit is always there to help, especially when you’re feeling weak or unsure how to pray. 

Rest in God’s Sovereignty: Take comfort in knowing that God is in control and is working things out for your good, even when circumstances seem challenging or unclear. 

Embrace Your Purpose: Live with the understanding that you are called to be like Jesus, and let this truth shape how you live and interact with others. 

Hold Onto Hope: Look forward to the glory that will be revealed in us, letting this hope sustain you through current trials and challenges. 

Romans 8:26-30 encourages believers with the assurance of the Spirit’s intercession, the certainty of God’s purposeful work in their lives, and the glorious future that awaits them. 

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Premarital Questions Couples Should Discuss

Undergoing a marriage counseling process before tying the knot offers many benefits for couples, laying a solid foundation for a healthy, lasting relationship.

Note: It’s important to engage in these conversations openly and honestly, always seeking to understand and support each other’s perspectives and needs. Remember that the process is in the best interest of the couple and their long and happy life together.

Here are some key reasons this preparatory step is important:

Enhancing Communication Skills

Marriage counseling helps couples develop strong communication skills, enabling them to express their thoughts, feelings, and needs more effectively. It teaches active listening and empathy, ensuring that both partners feel heard and understood, which is vital for resolving conflicts and deepening emotional intimacy.

Identifying and Managing Differences

Every individual brings their unique background, beliefs, and expectations into a relationship. Counseling provides a safe space to explore these differences and discuss sensitive issues, such as finances, family planning, and lifestyle choices. It helps couples find common ground and develop strategies for managing disagreements in a respectful and constructive manner.

Strengthening Conflict Resolution Skills

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. Pre-marital counseling equips couples with the tools they need to handle disagreements without causing harm to the relationship. Learning to resolve conflicts in a healthy way can prevent them from escalating into major issues and help maintain a strong bond over time.

Setting Realistic Expectations for Marriage

Many people enter marriage with unrealistic expectations, influenced by cultural narratives, family backgrounds, or personal assumptions. Counseling helps couples set realistic expectations, understand the commitment marriage requires, and recognize that challenges and growth opportunities are part of a shared life.

Building a Strong Foundation in Faith

For Christian couples, pre-marital counseling rooted in faith can deepen their understanding of marriage as a covenant with God. It encourages them to center their relationship in Christ, align their values with biblical principles, and commit to practices like prayer and worship together, strengthening their spiritual bond.

Fostering Emotional Intimacy

Counseling encourages couples to explore their emotional needs and vulnerabilities, fostering a deeper emotional connection. It provides tools for building intimacy, ensuring that both partners feel loved, valued, and supported as they embark on their life together.

Preparing for Future Challenges

Life brings changes, challenges, and unexpected events. Pre-marital counseling helps couples anticipate and prepare for these ups and downs, discussing topics like career changes, family dynamics, and health issues. Being prepared can help them navigate life’s storms without drifting apart.

Encouraging Long-Term Growth and Happiness

Marriage is a journey of growth and discovery. Counseling sets the stage for a fulfilling and enduring relationship by encouraging ongoing communication, mutual respect, and shared goals. It reminds couples that marriage requires effort and adaptation, and that their love and commitment can deepen over time.

In summary, undergoing a marriage counseling process is invaluable for young couples. It not only equips them with the skills and insights needed for a healthy marriage but also deepens their understanding and appreciation of each other, laying the groundwork for a loving, resilient partnership.

The following are key questions a couple should discuss before getting married. The couple should openly discuss these questions, and they write where they align as well as where they recognize opportunities for growth together. In areas where they feel it’s necessary, the couple may decide to involve a counselor or pastor to facilitate dialogue.

Faith and Beliefs

  • How does your faith influence your daily decisions and lifestyle?
  • In what ways will we actively practice our faith together?
  • What are our plans for involving God through prayer and Bible study in our marriage?
  • How will we navigate any differences in our theological beliefs or church traditions?

Marriage Expectations

  • What is your understanding of marriage based on biblical principles?
  • How do you see the roles within a Christian marriage?
  • What lessons have you learned from observing marriages around you, and how do you wish to apply them to ours?

Communication and Conflict Resolution

  • What strategies can we use to ensure we maintain healthy communication?
  • Are there any previous experiences that might influence our relationship, and how can we work through them together?
  • How can we create a safe space for expressing our feelings and needs?

Family and Children

  • Do you envision having children, and what are your thoughts on parenting styles?
  • How open are we to options like adoption if we face challenges with having children?
  • What core values do we want to instill in our children?
  • What boundaries should we set with extended family to protect our nuclear family dynamic?

Financial Management

  • How should we approach managing our finances in light of Christian stewardship?
  • What system will we use for budgeting, and who will oversee it?
  • How do we plan to address any current or future debt?

Career and Education

  • How will we balance professional ambitions with our family commitments?
  • Are there any significant career or education moves anticipated in our future?
  • What are our views on one partner pausing their career for parenting or other reasons?

Intimacy and Boundaries

  • What expectations do we have regarding intimacy within our marriage?
  • How will we establish healthy boundaries with others to safeguard our marriage?
  • What proactive steps will we take to keep our marriage vibrant and guard against external and internal threats?

Lifestyle and Leisure

  • How do we envision spending our leisure time both together and individually?
  • What role do hobbies, travel, and entertainment play in our lives?
  • How important is it for us to cultivate shared interests?

Health and Well-being

  • How do we prioritize physical and mental health within our lifestyle?
  • What is our stance on seeking help through counseling or therapy when needed?
  • How can we support one another in pursuing a healthy lifestyle?

Trust

  • How do we define trust within our relationship, and why is it important?
  • Can we share experiences where trust was built or challenged in our past relationships, and how those lessons apply to us?
  • What specific actions and commitments are we willing to make to ensure trust remains a cornerstone of our marriage?

Future Planning

  • Where do we see ourselves in the future, and what dreams do we have for our marriage?
  • How will we support each other in achieving individual and shared goals?
  • How do we plan to adapt and grow together through life’s unexpected challenges?

Remember: It’s important to make the time to engage in these conversations openly and honestly, always seeking to understand and support each other’s perspectives and needs. The goal of the process is in the best interest of the couple and their long and happy life together.

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Teth – Psalm 119:65-72

“Teth” (ט) is the ninth letter of the Hebrew alphabet and serves as the heading for the ninth section of Psalm 119 (verses 65-72). In this section, each verse begins with “Teth” in the original Hebrew, maintaining the acrostic pattern that characterizes the entire psalm.

The symbolic meaning of “Teth” can be explored on several levels:

Literal Meaning and Symbolism: “Teth” is often associated with the word “tov,” which means “good” in Hebrew. This connection can symbolize the goodness inherent in God’s creation and commandments, as well as the goodness that results from following God’s laws. In the context of Psalm 119, “Teth” could represent the goodness of God and His teachings, as acknowledged by the psalmist in recognizing the benefit of divine instruction and correction.

Symbol of Contemplation and Self-Examination: “Teth” resembles a container that is closed on all sides except for a small opening, which can symbolize introspection and the idea of looking inward. This section of Psalm 119 reflects the psalmist’s contemplation on his experiences, especially the learning and growth that have come from affliction, indicating a process of self-examination leading to a deeper understanding of God’s statutes.

Cycle of Growth and Renewal: The shape of “Teth,” resembling a circle with a crown, can symbolize the cyclical nature of spiritual growth and renewal. The psalmist’s reflections on affliction and learning from God’s decrees can be seen as part of a continual process of being shaped and refined by God’s word, leading to spiritual maturity.

Protection and Enclosure: Given that “Teth” visually suggests something encircled or enclosed, it can also symbolize the protective aspect of God’s commandments. Just as a container protects its contents, God’s laws safeguard the believer, guiding them towards what is good and keeping them from harm.

In summary, “Teth” in Psalm 119 symbolizes the inherent goodness of God’s commandments, the importance of introspection and learning from one’s experiences, and the protective and refining role of divine statutes in a believer’s life. Through adherence to God’s laws, the psalmist experiences growth, renewal, and the security of living under God’s guidance.

Psalm 119:65-72: Verse by Verse Analysis

Verse 65:       

Text: “You have done good to your servant, O Lord, according to your word.”

Reflection: Acknowledging God’s goodness, the psalmist reflects on how God has blessed him in accordance with divine promises, emphasizing trust in God’s faithful adherence to His word.

Cross-reference: Psalm 34:8 – “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.”

Verse 66:       

Text: “Teach me good judgment and knowledge, for I believe in your commandments.”

Reflection: The psalmist asks for wisdom and understanding, valuing these as essential for living in alignment with God’s commandments, indicating a desire for discernment grounded in faith.

Cross-reference: James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”

Verse 67:       

Text: “Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I obey your word.”

Reflection: Reflecting on past hardships, the psalmist recognizes that affliction led him back to obedience to God’s word, suggesting that trials can guide one towards righteousness.

Cross-reference: Hebrews 12:11 – “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”

Verse 68:       

Text: “You are good, and what you do is good; teach me your decrees.”

Reflection: The psalmist affirms God’s inherent goodness and the goodness of His actions, asking to learn more deeply from God’s decrees, underlining a trust in God’s nature and teachings.

Cross-reference: Psalm 100:5 – “For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.”

Verse 69:       

Text: “Though the arrogant have smeared me with lies, I keep your precepts with all my heart.”

Reflection: Despite facing deception and slander from the proud, the psalmist remains committed to following God’s precepts wholeheartedly, illustrating resilience in faith.

Cross-reference: 1 Peter 3:16 – “Keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.”

Verse 70:       

Text: “Their hearts are callous and unfeeling, but I delight in your law.”

Reflection: Contrasting the callousness of the wicked with his joy in God’s law, the psalmist underscores the joy and spiritual sensitivity derived from embracing God’s word.

Cross-reference: Ezekiel 36:26 – “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.”

Verse 71:       

Text: “It was good for me to be afflicted so that I might learn your decrees.”

Reflection: The psalmist sees value in his afflictions as they have led him to a deeper understanding and commitment to God’s decrees, highlighting how trials can foster spiritual growth.

Cross-reference: Romans 5:3-4 – “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”

Verse 72:       

Text: “The law from your mouth is more precious to me than thousands of pieces of silver and gold.”

Reflection: Valuing God’s law above material wealth, the psalmist expresses the incomparable worth of divine teachings, indicating a profound appreciation for spiritual over material riches.

Cross-reference: Proverbs 3:13-15 – “Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold.”

Key Takeaways from Psalm 119:65-72:

Recognition of God’s Goodness: The psalmist acknowledges God’s goodness not only in His nature but also in His actions, emphasizing trust and reliance on God’s promises. This acknowledgment is a testament to the belief in the inherent goodness of God’s commandments and His faithful adherence to His word.

The Beneficial Nature of Affliction: Through personal reflection, the psalmist identifies past hardships as pivotal moments that redirected him towards obedience to God’s word. This perspective reveals an understanding that trials, while challenging, can serve a divine purpose in guiding individuals back to righteousness and deepening their commitment to God’s decrees.

Resilience Against Opposition: Despite encountering lies and callousness from others, the psalmist’s commitment to God’s precepts remains unwavering. This resilience highlights the strength found in a heart dedicated to God’s law, suggesting that spiritual integrity can endure in the face of external malice and deceit.

Valuing Divine Wisdom Over Material Wealth: Expressing that God’s law is more precious than significant material wealth, the psalmist illustrates the incomparable value of divine wisdom and guidance. This preference underscores a profound appreciation for spiritual riches over worldly possessions, recognizing the lasting fulfillment that comes from living according to God’s word.

Joy and Delight in God’s Law: The psalmist not only obeys God’s commandments out of duty but finds joy and delight in them. This emotional connection to God’s law reflects a deep love for God’s word and an understanding of its positive impact on the believer’s life.

Together, these key takeaways from Psalm 119:65-72 highlight the transformative power of God’s word in the life of a believer, showcasing how trust in God’s goodness, resilience in the face of adversity, and the valuation of spiritual truths over material gains contribute to a fulfilling and righteous life.

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Sermon Notes: Life Through the Holy Spirit – Present Suffering and Future Glory

Hope (18–25). We are not frustrated by the suffering we experience or see in our world because we have hope. When Jesus returns, we will enter into glorious liberty! The Spirit is the beginning of the harvest and assures us that the best is yet to come.

Romans 8:22-25 deepens the discussion on suffering, hope, and redemption, focusing on the groaning of creation and the believers’ anticipation of future glory. This passage is rich with themes of: 

  • endurance
  • faith
  • eschatological hope
    • The understanding of death, the Judgement, and final destiny of the soul.

The Message

Groaning of Creation (Verse 22)

‭‭Romans 8:22 NIV‬‬ We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 

The World’s Brokenness

  • Practical Insight: Just like we observe in nature—natural disasters, environmental degradation, and the extinction of species—there’s a sense that things are not as they should be. Paul likens this to “groaning,” as if creation itself is longing for a change or a return to its original, unmarred state.
  • Everyday Application: This perspective encourages us to recognize and engage with the world’s suffering, not as passive observers but as active participants seeking restoration, whether through environmental stewardship, social justice, or other means of caring for creation.

Cross-reference: Isaiah 65:17 – “For behold, I create new heavens and a new earth, and the former things shall not be remembered or come into mind.”

  • Insight: Paul uses the metaphor of creation groaning as in childbirth to describe the present state of the world. This imagery captures both the pain and the anticipation of new life, reflecting the tension between the current reality of suffering and the future hope of redemption. Creation’s groan is not just a sign of suffering but also a longing for transformation.

Believers’ Groaning and Hope (Verses 23-24)

‭‭Romans 8:23-24 NIV‬‬ Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies. [24] For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? 

Our Inner Longing for Change

  • Practical Insight:We, too, feel a deep-seated desire for things to be different, not just externally in the world, but also internally within ourselves. Whether it’s physical ailments, emotional wounds, or relational fractures, there’s an inward groaning for healing, wholeness, and redemption.
  • Everyday Application: This insight invites us to be honest about our own areas of brokenness and to seek healing and transformation, not in isolation, but within the context of community and faith, recognizing that this process is part of a larger story of redemption.

Cross-references:

  • 2 Corinthians 5:2 – “For in this tent we groan, longing to put on our heavenly dwelling.”
  • ‭‭1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV‬‬ Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
  • ‭‭Hebrews 10:24-25 NIV‬‬ And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, [25] not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
  • Insight: Not only does creation groan, but believers also groan inwardly as they await their adoption as sons, the redemption of their bodies. This groaning signifies a deep spiritual longing for the fulfillment of God’s promises. The hope of resurrection and the completion of our adoption as God’s children are central to the Christian faith, a hope that is certain yet unseen.

Hope and Patience (Verse 25)

‭‭Romans 8:25 NIV‬‬ But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.

The Role of Hope

  • Practical Insight: Hope, in this passage, is not wishful thinking but a confident expectation based on God’s promises. It’s the assurance that despite the current reality of suffering and longing, there is a future where all things are made new and restored.
  • Everyday Application: Cultivating hope means actively reminding ourselves of God’s promises and allowing them to shape our perspective and response to life’s challenges. It involves patience and perseverance, trusting that God is at work even when we don’t see immediate results.

Cross-reference: Hebrews 11:1 – “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”

  • Insight: The nature of Christian hope is that it is for something not yet seen. True hope requires patience, the ability to wait with expectation for God’s promises to be fulfilled. This patience is not passive but is an active, faith-filled waiting that shapes how believers live in the present.

Patience in the Process

  • Practical Insight: The passage suggests that waiting is an integral part of the Christian experience. This waiting isn’t passive but is characterized by patience and active anticipation of what God will do.
  • Everyday Application:Practicing patience involves embracing the present moment with all its imperfections, engaging in acts of love and service even when they seem small or insignificant, and trusting that these efforts contribute to the larger narrative of God’s redemptive work.

Theological and Practical Implications

  • Eschatological Perspective: Romans 8:22-25 provides a vital eschatological perspective, reminding believers that the present age is marked by suffering and groaning but is moving towards a glorious completion in God’s redemptive plan.
  • Spiritual Longing: The passage validates the believers’ experience of longing and groaning for the completion of redemption as a natural response to the already-not-yet tension of God’s kingdom.
  • Active Hope: The hope described in this passage is not passive but actively influences how believers engage with the world, endure suffering, and anticipate the future.
  • Communal and Cosmic Redemption: The interconnectedness of creation’s groaning with the believers’ anticipation of redemption underscores the comprehensive scope of God’s salvation plan, which includes both the natural world and humanity.

In summary, Romans 8:22-25 eloquently speaks to the tension between current suffering and future glory, encouraging believers to embrace a hope that is both assured by faith and yet unseen, fostering patience and endurance as they await the full realization of their adoption as children of God and the redemption of creation. 

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Heth – Psalm 119:57-64

“Heth” (ח) is the eighth letter of the Hebrew alphabet and serves as the heading for the eighth section of Psalm 119, which includes verses 57-64. In this section, each verse begins with “Heth” in the original HebrewText, continuing the acrostic pattern of Psalm 119.

The symbolic meaning of “Heth” can be explored through various aspects:

Literal Meaning and Symbolism: “Heth” literally means “fence” or “enclosure” in Hebrew. In the context of Psalm 119, this could symbolize the protective and boundary-setting nature of God’s law. Just as a fence provides protection and delineates a space, God’s statutes safeguard believers and set the boundaries for holy living.

Separation and Sanctification: Given its meaning as an enclosure, “Heth” can also symbolize the concept of being set apart or sanctified. For the psalmist and believers, adhering to God’s laws is a means of being separated from the world’s influences, leading to a life that is dedicated to God and marked by sanctity.

Space for Intimacy with God: An enclosure creates a defined space, which in a spiritual context, can represent the personal and intimate space between God and the believer. The section of Psalm 119 under “Heth” emphasizes a personal relationship with God, prayer for His guidance, and a commitment to His commands, reflecting this intimate spiritual space.

Security and Assurance: Just as a fence offers security and protection, the laws and precepts of God provide spiritual security for believers. This section of Psalm 119 highlights the psalmist’s reliance on God’s promises and laws for comfort, guidance, and hope, symbolizing the assurance that comes from being within the boundaries set by God’s word.

Foundation for Life: An enclosure can also be seen as a foundational element, within which life is lived and cultivated. The psalmist’s commitment to obeying God’s statutes (“The Lord is my portion; I have promised to obey your words”) can be seen as choosing to build one’s life foundationally within the confines of God’s will and law.

In summary, “Heth” in Psalm 119 symbolizes the protective, sanctifying, and intimate nature of living according to God’s laws. It reflects the believer’s commitment to a life set apart for God, secure and nurtured within the boundaries of His commands, leading to a deep, personal relationship with the Divine.

Psalm 119:57-64: Verse by Verse Analysis

Verse 57:

Text: “The Lord is my portion; I have promised to obey your words.”

Reflection: The psalmist declares God as his chosen portion, signifying total reliance on God rather than worldly possessions, and commits to obeying God’s Word.

Cross-reference: Lamentations 3:24“The Lord is my portion,” says my soul, “therefore I will hope in him.”

Verse 58:

Text: “I have sought your face with all my heart; be gracious to me according to your promise.”

Reflection: Here, seeking God’s face represents a deep desire for a personal relationship with God, accompanied by a plea for grace based on God’s promises.

Cross-reference: 2 Chronicles 7:14“If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”

Verse 59:

Text: “I have considered my ways and have turned my steps to your statutes.”

Reflection: Upon reflection, the psalmist decides to align his life more closely with God’s statutes, indicating repentance and a commitment to obedience.

Cross-reference: Luke 15:17-18“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.'”

Verse 60:

Text: “I will hasten and not delay to obey your commands.”

Reflection: The psalmist expresses urgency in obeying God’s commands, showing eagerness to live according to God’s will without hesitation.

Cross-reference: John 4:34“Jesus said to them, ‘My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work.'”

Verse 61:

Text: “Though the wicked bind me with ropes, I will not forget your law.”

Reflection: Even if faced with persecution or constraints by the wicked, the psalmist resolves not to forsake God’s law.

Cross-reference: Acts 4:19“But Peter and John replied, ‘Which is right in God’s eyes: to listen to you, or to him? You be the judges!'”

Verse 62:

Text: “At midnight I rise to give you thanks for your righteous laws.”

Reflection: Demonstrating devotion, the psalmist wakes at midnight to express gratitude for God’s just and righteous laws.

Cross-reference: Acts 16:25“About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them.”

Verse 63:

Text: “I am a friend to all who fear you, to all who follow your precepts.”

Reflection: There’s a fellowship among those who revere God and adhere to His precepts, as the psalmist identifies with such individuals.

Cross-reference: Malachi 3:16“Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard. A scroll of remembrance was written in his presence concerning those who feared the Lord and honored his name.”

Verse 64:

Text: “The earth is filled with your love, Lord; teach me your decrees.”

Reflection: Recognizing God’s love present throughout the earth, the psalmist seeks instruction in God’s decrees, longing to understand and live by them.

Cross-reference: Psalm 33:5“The Lord loves righteousness and justice; the earth is full of his unfailing love.”

Key Takeaways from Psalm 119:57-64:

God as the Supreme Portion: The section underscores the psalmist’s deep devotion to God, choosing Him above all else and committing wholeheartedly to following His commands. This reflects a prioritization of spiritual wealth over material possessions.

Commitment to Obedience and Relationship: Demonstrated through thoughtful reflection on personal conduct, an urgent eagerness to adhere to God’s commands, and steadfastness in the face of adversity, the psalmist reveals a profound commitment to living in obedience to God. This shows the importance of aligning one’s life with divine precepts as a manifestation of their relationship with God.

Gratitude and Fellowship: The acts of rising at midnight to thank God and identifying with those who revere the Lord illustrate the depth of the psalmist’s gratitude for God’s just laws and the sense of community among believers. This emphasizes the value of communal worship and shared reverence for God’s statutes.

Recognition of God’s Pervasive Love: Observing God’s love as evident throughout the creation, the psalmist seeks further understanding of God’s decrees, indicating a desire to grow in knowledge and application of God’s laws. This highlights an awareness of divine love in the world and a longing for deeper comprehension and observance of God’s instructions.

These takeaways collectively emphasize the richness of a life led in accordance with God’s Word, marked by a heartfelt commitment to obedience, an active pursuit of spiritual growth, and a keen sense of fellowship among those who fear the Lord.

“The Lord is my portion; I have promised to obey your words.“

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Sermon Notes: Life Through the Holy Spirit – Living By The Spirit

Liberty (12–17). We enter God’s family by the new birth, not by adoption (John 3); but adoption gives us an adult standing in His family. He deals with us as mature sons and daughters and not as “little children.” We can talk (“Abba, Father” [v. 15]), walk, and use our inheritance right now. We are free, but we are still debtors to the Lord (v. 12). 

Romans 8:12-17continues with themes of life through the Spirit, focusing on the believer’s transformation and adoption as children of God.

Obligation to Live According to the Spirit (Verses 12-13)

Romans 8:12‭-‬13 NIV Therefore, brothers and sisters, we have an obligation—but it is not to the flesh, to live according to it. For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.

  • Commentary: Paul emphasizes the believer’s responsibility to live not according to the flesh but by the Spirit. This living by the Spirit involves a moral and spiritual transformation, where the deeds of the body (sinful actions and desires) are put to death. This call to spiritual vitality is foundational to Christian living, highlighting a dynamic, ongoing process of sanctification empowered by the Holy Spirit.

Cross-reference:

  • Galatians 5:24 – “Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.”

Note: This reinforces the notion that believers, through their union with Christ, have decisively broken with the sinful nature and are called to live in the power and guidance of the Holy Spirit.

Adoption as Children of God (Verses 14-15)

Romans 8:14‭-‬15 NIV For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.”

  • Commentary: This passage highlights the profound relational change for believers—they are adopted as God’s children. The Spirit leads believers into a deep, intimate relationship with God, where they can address Him as “Abba, Father,” a term of endearment signifying closeness and confidence. This adoption into God’s family is a central aspect of the believer’s new identity in Christ, emphasizing not just a legal status but an experiential reality of God’s fatherly love and care.

Cross-reference:

  • Galatians 4:6-7 – “Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, ‘Abba, Father.’ So you are no longer a slave, but God’s child; and since you are his child, God has made you also an heir.”

Note: Echoes the theme of adoption and the intimate relationship with God as Father, emphasizing the transformation from slaves to sons and heirs, underlining the believer’s new identity and inheritance in Christ.

Inheritance and Suffering with Christ (Verses 16-17)

Romans 8:16‭-‬17 NIV The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.

  • Commentary: This section further develops the idea of believers’ new identity as God’s children, stressing the Spirit’s role in affirming this identity. It introduces the concept of inheritance, indicating that believers, as God’s children, are heirs to God’s promises, including eternal life and glory. However, this inheritance is also linked with suffering, suggesting that enduring suffering for Christ’s sake is part of the journey toward glorification.

Cross-reference:

  • 2 Timothy 2:12 – “If we endure, we will also reign with him. If we disown him, he will also disown us.”

2 Timothy 2:11‭-‬13 NIV Here is a trustworthy saying: If we died with him, we will also live with him; if we endure, we will also reign with him. If we disown him, he will also disown us; if we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself.

Note: Highlights the connection between suffering/endurance and future glorification with Christ, reflecting the notion that sharing in Christ’s sufferings is integral to sharing in his glory, as mentioned in Romans 8:17.

These themes in Romans 8:12-17—living by the Spirit, adoption as God’s children, and the intertwined experience of suffering and future glory—paint a comprehensive picture of the Christian life as one of transformation, relational intimacy with God, and hope amidst trials.